Take as an example a situation where a child grabs the family kitten, and is scratched. The child then arrives at the conclusion through experience that the kitten is bad. Yet another child grabs the family kitten, but this time the kitten purrs, and is very loving and gentle. This child through experience develops a positive identification with the kitten. It is through a constant acquisition of these imprints that a baby acquires a context of associations and identifications leading to impressions of good or bad. What is positive to one child may be negative to another. As the child grows, they develop thousands of negatives and positives which form what we call our "life scripting".