• Dissatisfied parents who can never be pleased
• Being compared to a sibling
• An older sibling leaving for school
• A death in the family
• Divorce or other separation
• Loss of a parent or favorite grandparent
• Moving away from friends or members of the family
• A depressed, anxious or highly-strung parent
• Family members who are chronic worriers
• An abusive sibling who teases or shames
• Arguments or violence between parents
• Threats of harm
• An addictive parent or step-parent
• Physical, sexual or verbal abuse
• A parent or sibling who is physically ill much of the time